In Conversation

There are many types of conservations. I have my preferred ones; but they all have meaning. Value? That depends. Let’s get into it.

Types:

1. Intimate, or between two people only

   

2. Public, with an audience, known and unknown

   

3. Private, within a small group or with one’s self

Situations and Styles:

1. In a therapy session
2. In a podcast

   

3. In a family, locker room, playground, bar, or street corner (to include Facetime)

   

4. At the water cooler
5. As a teacher, lecturer, politician, or guru
6. In an online group chat
7. In a blog (an online public written log, or “web log”)
8. In a journal (a written private conversation with oneself)
9. In a written letter or email, text, etc.
10. In a mainstream publication (book, newspaper, or magazine)

    

Contrast

is considerable. As are the demand characteristics of each. In today’s world it can be confusing just what is appropriate for what. Additionally, which style works best when. It’s no wonder social anxiety, sadness, and depression are on the rise.

I’ve had occasion to be in all of the situations; but must admit – I wasn’t adroit in every case. There are, I’ve learned, rules (In session. Too late? Remains to be seen. “The proof is in the pudding.” She said.)  One style doesn’t necessarily work the same in all situations.

Conclusion.

Conversation has become more complex. Because of technology. There are now, more than ever, more ways to converse, or “have a conversation”.

I prefer that of the intimate. Be that in session, the bar, or online. Nevertheless, what is – is.

We are fucked. We are not capable of having a meaningful conversation with the entire peopled-world all at the same time. However, we are also not capable of not trying to do that.

What do you think? How are you doing? With regard to your conversations?